Six days before the Passover Jesus came to Bethany, the home of Lazarus, whom he had raised from the dead. There they gave a dinner for him. Martha served, and Lazarus was one of those at the table with him. Mary took a pound of costly perfume made of pure nard, anointed Jesus’ feet, and wiped them with her hair. The house was filled with the fragrance of the perfume. But Judas Iscariot, one of his disciples (the one who was about to betray him), said, “Why was this perfume not sold for three hundred denarii and the money given to the poor?” (He said this not because he cared about the poor, but because he was a thief; he kept the common purse and used to steal what was put into it.) Jesus said, “Leave her alone. She bought it so that she might keep it for the day of my burial. You always have the poor with you, but you do not always have me.” When the great crowd of the Jews learned that he was there, they came not only because of Jesus but also to see Lazarus, whom he had raised from the dead. So the chief priests planned to put Lazarus to death as well, since it was on account of him that many of the Jews were deserting and were believing in Jesus.
Wasteful, just wasteful…a pound of perfume, LOTS of perfume…she took, she poured, she wiped. In this reading for today, we find this sort of passive Jesus. He visits the home of friends, the home of those whom he had served, those for whom he had done things. And, it says, they give a dinner for him. Jesus is the guest of honor. After all the doing, after all the action, after all the stuff, all the calling and the healing and the teaching and the table-turning and the miracles, he now spends time with friends. And they serve him. And then the passage tells us that Mary takes a pound of costly perfumed nard, breaks the seal, and lavishly pours it onto Jesus’ feet. Then as the oil runs down his feet and begins to drip to the floor, she wipes his feet with her hair. The whole house is filled with this overwhelming fragrance, sort of similar to a combination of mint and ginseng. It permeates everything with an almost sickeningly sweet aroma.
What in the world was she doing? She is breaking all of the rules. First, she loosens her hair in a roomful of men. Then she pours perfume on Jesus’ feet, which is just not done. The head, maybe, but not the feet. Then she actually touches him and then wipes the oil with her hair. The disciples were appalled. Here is this man who has worked for years to bring peace and justice to the world, to heal others, to end poverty and oppression and you waste this oil by pouring it out on him! That oil could have been sold. Things could have been done with that money! We could have done great ministry with what you just poured on his feet! But you have wasted it! You have squandered it! Then Jesus responds. “Leave her alone,” he says. You see, she gets it. She understands.
Well, first of all, a pound of perfume is A WHOLE BUNCH of perfume. If it really was worth what Judas claimed, that would probably be about $30,000 in today’s economy. I mean, really, think what you could do with that amount of money! Think of all the ministry you could do. But, oh, I wish I could be like Mary! I wish I could take and pour and never count the cost. So was it a waste? Or was it the most extravagant love that Mary felt? And perhaps this was the only way she could show it. In this moment, she anoints Jesus with a pound of perfume. The others never really got it that night. But Mary knew. Mary knew that she had truly entered the Presence of Christ.
Notice the language. She took, she poured, she wiped. What she did was sacramental. It was her becoming. It was the way she entered that incredible love of Christ. So, when do we let our lives become? When do we become sacramental? When do we enter that incredible love of Christ? It has little to do with what you do or what you say; it has to do with what you give up, with what you surrender without counting the cost. On this holiest of weeks, we are not called to do; we are called, finally, to become. We are called to enter that incredible love of Christ. We are called to walk, pouring ourselves out without counting the cost, even if it takes a pound of perfume.
Our hosannas sung, our palms waved, let us go with passion into this week…. It is a time to greet Jesus as the Lord’s Anointed One,to lavishly break our alabaster and pour perfume out for him without counting the cost. It is a time for preparation. (Ann Weems, Kneeling in Jerusalem)
On this Holy Monday, what do you hold dear? What are the most important, the most valuable things in your life? What would you give up, pouring out with utter extravagance, for Christ?
Grace and Peace,