What were we expecting? Well, of course, we were expecting someone obvious, someone who would make himself known in the world, someone who is a little bit better than you or I. We were expecting power and might and grandiose presentation. But instead God walked into our very human existence. God traversed time and space and the perceived separation between the sacred and the ordinary and entered our everyday world. On some level, that bothers many of us. After all, we are trying to do BETTER than this; we are aspiring to be more than human. What in the world is God doing messing around in the muck of this world?
Pierre Teilhard de Chardin said that “by virtue of the creation and, still more, of the Incarnation, nothing here below is profane for those who know how to see.” So, perhaps God came into this very ordinary world to show us the holiness that has been created, the sacredness that in our worldliness, we were somehow missing. Perhaps God steps into our lives to show us the depth that we haven’t dared to dig into our lives. Perhaps God came and walked with us not to show us how to be but to show us how to see. But when it’s all said and done, this practice we have of “looking for God” has been proven bizarre. After all, it was never God that was lost! We were never separated from the sacred; we just missed seeing it because it wasn’t what we were expecting. So, again, what were we expecting? Maybe the the whole lesson is that God will come when and where and in the way that God will come. But if there’s a “pattern” to be figured out about this God who cannot be figured out, it’s that God comes into the unexpected, into the unplanned, and into the unprepared places in our lives and lays down in a feed trough and patiently waits for the world to wake up and notice.
Come, thou long-expected Jesus, born to sety thy people free, from our fears and sins release us, let us find our rest in thee. Israel’s strength and consolation, hope of all the earth thou art, dear desire of every nation, joy of every longing heart.
Born thy people to deliver, born a child and yet a King, born to reign in us forever, now thy gracious kingdom bring.
By thine own eternal spirit rule in all our hearts alone; by thine own sufficient merit, raise us to thy glorious throne.
In these final days of Advent, we are all busy preparing for the day of God’s coming. But whether or not we get it done, whether or not the house is clean or the goodies are baked or the presents are wrapped, God will come and the world will never be the same. Expectation is about moving into what will be rather than preparing to bring it into what is.
What are you expecting? That’s probably not it! Give yourself the gift of being open to the way that God comes without expecting it to happen in a certain way!
Grace and Peace,